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Sunday 29 May 2011
Wednesday 25 May 2011
FIRE ISLAND Memorial-fuck-a-thon Weekend: "Camp Wannafukme"
So, anyone going to the Fire island fuckfest tonight -- called Camp Wannfukme? It's run by the guy who hosts the NYJOCK Parties in Manhattan and Brooklyn. I won't be in Fire Island this weekend, so if you go tonight, report back.
I did go to the NYJOCK's "EARLY EDITION" party on Thursday night before taking off for the long weekend. NYJOCK amazes me in that it always (at least when I go) pulls in really hot young guys. Fuck, at 28, I am starting to feel like one of the older guys. Thursday's party, while not as packed as the usually Friday or Saturday parties was no exception. I went with a few fuckbuddies, one regular, and another guy who had never been before. The party starts at 8pm, but I usually show up late when most the hotter guys get there. I walked right through the party to the back room where I instantly saw an good fuckbuddy friend of mine on his back getting fucked. I grabbed him when he was done: my turn. He said he'd been there since 9pm, and it'd been steady fucking and sucking. We got a drink at the bar and head back to the room that used to have the sling. They moved a couch in there now, we sat down and he sucked me off until I was rock hard. I bent his ass over the sofa and we fucked. As usual with these parties, a nice crowd gathered and they joined in -- guys were fucking and sucking around us, and when I was done with him, I just moved on to the next hot ass to my right.
After about about an hour, I took a break in the porn room -- there were a bunch of hot guys slowly jacking off while watching the movie. We talked about the party -- all agreed that it was one of the best sex parties in the city, but they all thought it was curious about all the attitude. One dude, said he wish everyone would get off their high horse, and just fuck. There are no trolls (well, one--how does this guy always get in!!?) so just go for it guys. One of the dudes on the bench started to suck me off, so I suggested we move to the back room with all the beds, which we did. The crowd seemed to move back and forth between the rooms, with group fucks and sucking. My favorite part of the night -- and I rarely like such darkness, is when the lamp went out in the back room for about 30 minutes. As I said -- there were no real trolls, so it was totally cool to grab any cock, any ass, and suck and fuck. Was very hot. Stayed almost until the end, and had a great time. When my fuckbuds and I were dressing to go, were started talking these other dudes--very hot with some sexy accent (always foreign dudes at these parties (so hot!) and I was asking them if they were going to PRIVATE PARTY on Wed night -- one dude said he'd never been, but had read about it on my blog (very cool, no?). I said I see them there, and he gave me some fucking hot tongue and left. Looking forward even more to Wed night! Anyway -- NYJOCK was fucking hot as usual -- it still has that one problem that too many of the guys who go think they are way too hot even for the other hot guys. Dudes -- get over yourselves and just fuck! Still, NYJOCK is a must -- don't miss party every time.
Anyway, guys, if you go to "Camp Wannafukme" -- report back. Otherwise will see you at PRIVATE PARTY on Wednesday night! Here's the info for the Fire Island party tonight...
THE NYJOCK PARTY--NYJP (Fire Island) Camp Wannafukme. Party starts at 11 and goes till 5. The host is very discriminating -- and because of it the party now has the hottest guys. For a younger/hot crowd.
To get in, email stats and pics to nyjockparty@yahoo.com
I did go to the NYJOCK's "EARLY EDITION" party on Thursday night before taking off for the long weekend. NYJOCK amazes me in that it always (at least when I go) pulls in really hot young guys. Fuck, at 28, I am starting to feel like one of the older guys. Thursday's party, while not as packed as the usually Friday or Saturday parties was no exception. I went with a few fuckbuddies, one regular, and another guy who had never been before. The party starts at 8pm, but I usually show up late when most the hotter guys get there. I walked right through the party to the back room where I instantly saw an good fuckbuddy friend of mine on his back getting fucked. I grabbed him when he was done: my turn. He said he'd been there since 9pm, and it'd been steady fucking and sucking. We got a drink at the bar and head back to the room that used to have the sling. They moved a couch in there now, we sat down and he sucked me off until I was rock hard. I bent his ass over the sofa and we fucked. As usual with these parties, a nice crowd gathered and they joined in -- guys were fucking and sucking around us, and when I was done with him, I just moved on to the next hot ass to my right. After about about an hour, I took a break in the porn room -- there were a bunch of hot guys slowly jacking off while watching the movie. We talked about the party -- all agreed that it was one of the best sex parties in the city, but they all thought it was curious about all the attitude. One dude, said he wish everyone would get off their high horse, and just fuck. There are no trolls (well, one--how does this guy always get in!!?) so just go for it guys. One of the dudes on the bench started to suck me off, so I suggested we move to the back room with all the beds, which we did. The crowd seemed to move back and forth between the rooms, with group fucks and sucking. My favorite part of the night -- and I rarely like such darkness, is when the lamp went out in the back room for about 30 minutes. As I said -- there were no real trolls, so it was totally cool to grab any cock, any ass, and suck and fuck. Was very hot. Stayed almost until the end, and had a great time. When my fuckbuds and I were dressing to go, were started talking these other dudes--very hot with some sexy accent (always foreign dudes at these parties (so hot!) and I was asking them if they were going to PRIVATE PARTY on Wed night -- one dude said he'd never been, but had read about it on my blog (very cool, no?). I said I see them there, and he gave me some fucking hot tongue and left. Looking forward even more to Wed night! Anyway -- NYJOCK was fucking hot as usual -- it still has that one problem that too many of the guys who go think they are way too hot even for the other hot guys. Dudes -- get over yourselves and just fuck! Still, NYJOCK is a must -- don't miss party every time.
Anyway, guys, if you go to "Camp Wannafukme" -- report back. Otherwise will see you at PRIVATE PARTY on Wednesday night! Here's the info for the Fire Island party tonight...THE NYJOCK PARTY--NYJP (Fire Island) Camp Wannafukme. Party starts at 11 and goes till 5. The host is very discriminating -- and because of it the party now has the hottest guys. For a younger/hot crowd.
To get in, email stats and pics to nyjockparty@yahoo.com
Sunday 22 May 2011
June's PRIVATE PARTY next week: Don't Miss It
Looks like Memorial Day weekend brings out the slut in all of us -- the parties this week and next are a fantastic line up -- from NYJOCK on Thurs and LOAD NYC on Saturday and even a Fire Island bash on Saturday. Also to preview next week, don't miss June's very hot PRIVATE PARTY. And to wet your appetite, here's a review of last month's party...
"Hi Evan. I was at the private party last wednesday. i had a blast! i arrived on about 09.15 and the party was already started, i changed real quick and i cannot count how many dicks i sucked how many asses i rimmed and i had also very good fucking... i'm very "upset" i won't be in nyc for the next one.. therefore can't wait for the one after. thanks for your blog and the precious advices!!!"
Well, I couldn't have said it better -- so I won't try, here's the info on how to get in and guys, you need to plan ahead and interview with the host EARLY or you won't get in...
PRIVATE PARTY (Garment District) Great social sex party in large private loft apt. Good mix of twinks to muscle dudes to toned average guys, and a good mix of 20-30-40YOs (no one over 45, or under 21)--70-90+ guys attend. This is a great party to try if you've never been to a party before--very social, very safe, and a clean atmosphere, no attitude. The best part is that there is tons of HOT sex at this party – not just standing around. Just a warning: DON'T LET THE INITIAL PROCESS STOP YOU! A number of guys get pissed off by having to interview. It's easy: one quick phone call (where the host explains the party) and then an interview just before the party begins). Guys, I know it sounds annoying--but don't let it bother you - it's all cool and makes for a great crowd. There's a reason this party gets hot new guys each month, and where everyone actually has hot sex. Held once a month, 8:30pm-12am. The host provides drinks, condoms and lube; and showers, towels. Safe sex only.
*Send pics, Stats to: PRIVATE.PARTY@msn.com.
"Hi Evan. I was at the private party last wednesday. i had a blast! i arrived on about 09.15 and the party was already started, i changed real quick and i cannot count how many dicks i sucked how many asses i rimmed and i had also very good fucking... i'm very "upset" i won't be in nyc for the next one.. therefore can't wait for the one after. thanks for your blog and the precious advices!!!"
Well, I couldn't have said it better -- so I won't try, here's the info on how to get in and guys, you need to plan ahead and interview with the host EARLY or you won't get in...PRIVATE PARTY (Garment District) Great social sex party in large private loft apt. Good mix of twinks to muscle dudes to toned average guys, and a good mix of 20-30-40YOs (no one over 45, or under 21)--70-90+ guys attend. This is a great party to try if you've never been to a party before--very social, very safe, and a clean atmosphere, no attitude. The best part is that there is tons of HOT sex at this party – not just standing around. Just a warning: DON'T LET THE INITIAL PROCESS STOP YOU! A number of guys get pissed off by having to interview. It's easy: one quick phone call (where the host explains the party) and then an interview just before the party begins). Guys, I know it sounds annoying--but don't let it bother you - it's all cool and makes for a great crowd. There's a reason this party gets hot new guys each month, and where everyone actually has hot sex. Held once a month, 8:30pm-12am. The host provides drinks, condoms and lube; and showers, towels. Safe sex only.
*Send pics, Stats to: PRIVATE.PARTY@msn.com.
Saturday 21 May 2011
INFINITY's Saturday Night Snoozer Fuckfest
Hey buds, so it kills me to post this review, because I know THE INFINITY PARTY has great possibilities -- should be very hot!!!! I went once and had an okay time -- was a mixed scene: some hot guys, some average dudes, a few duds. BUT -- liked the host, liked the space and liked the vibe. A constant reviewer pal went to the Saturday night party, and I hear it kinda sucked. Shit! But listen guys, try the next Wednesday INFINITY party. The Saturday party is wedged between dinner and the NUBIANDUKES party -- so basically they want a few white dudes to come in, fuck, and get out before the hot African-American-only party starts at 11pm. It just doesn't seem to be working: small crowds, and so-so guys. Anyway, don't give up on INFINITY despite the report below. Here we go...
"Evan, I just got back from the Infinity Party held this evening. Hmmmm, where to begin? I arrived close to 7:30PM, which is 2 hours after the start of the party. I was like #10 on the list. That should have tipped me off. I should have just turned around and walked out. When I paid my $20 and went inside, I saw nothing but average, okay looking guys and out-of-shape older men. I stayed for about 1 hour. There was never more than 10 people total at any one time. Possibly the worst party I have ever attended."
Seriously buds, give it another try on the next Wed party. Here's the info...
INFINITY NYC (Times Square). Weekday After-work party, Now every other Wednesday (and sometimes Saturday night): “For dudes in need of a weekday release.” STRICTLY FOR FIT MEN 20-45. 7PM - 1AM; All supplies provided. Mandatory street clothes check. No shirts or tees.
To get in send stats and pics to infinitinyc@yahoo.com.
"Evan, I just got back from the Infinity Party held this evening. Hmmmm, where to begin? I arrived close to 7:30PM, which is 2 hours after the start of the party. I was like #10 on the list. That should have tipped me off. I should have just turned around and walked out. When I paid my $20 and went inside, I saw nothing but average, okay looking guys and out-of-shape older men. I stayed for about 1 hour. There was never more than 10 people total at any one time. Possibly the worst party I have ever attended."
Seriously buds, give it another try on the next Wed party. Here's the info...
INFINITY NYC (Times Square). Weekday After-work party, Now every other Wednesday (and sometimes Saturday night): “For dudes in need of a weekday release.” STRICTLY FOR FIT MEN 20-45. 7PM - 1AM; All supplies provided. Mandatory street clothes check. No shirts or tees.
To get in send stats and pics to infinitinyc@yahoo.com.
East Village's THE LOAD NYC PARTY review
Always get hot reports back about THE LOAD NYC PARTY down in the East Village -- and this short review of the party appeared in my email this week. Thought it was worth sharing. Here's the report...
"Hey there,
So I was visiting NYC last week and I ended up walking into the blue door video on Saturday May 14th. I believe the underwear party was happening. I was a little buzzed, but I think I just paid and went right in. I didn't email or get an invitation just fyi. However, it was HOT HOT HOT. super hot guys and loads of fun."
So, dudes, to get in, here's the info...
THE LOAD NYC PARTY (East Village). Underwear party held at Blue Door Video Basement for in-shape guys. 90 guys, porn, Soda/beer, condoms, play all night long. 1,500 sqft space, Saturday nights. For average to hot crowd. To get in email pics/stats to Loadnyc@aol.com
"Hey there,
So I was visiting NYC last week and I ended up walking into the blue door video on Saturday May 14th. I believe the underwear party was happening. I was a little buzzed, but I think I just paid and went right in. I didn't email or get an invitation just fyi. However, it was HOT HOT HOT. super hot guys and loads of fun."
So, dudes, to get in, here's the info... THE LOAD NYC PARTY (East Village). Underwear party held at Blue Door Video Basement for in-shape guys. 90 guys, porn, Soda/beer, condoms, play all night long. 1,500 sqft space, Saturday nights. For average to hot crowd. To get in email pics/stats to Loadnyc@aol.com
Sunday 15 May 2011
Dads'N'Lads Review
Hey guys, I am neither a Dad (yet) nor a Lad (unfortunately anymore) -- so this party is not for me. I've heard good things from guys who have gone, and the host seems like he is totally into making this one work. Here's a review of last night's party at the Gramercy Duplex. Sounds like a good party, since this is only the second outing (I was corrected -- this was their 3rd party) for DADS'N'LADS, but then I don't seem to know what the fuck is going on lately. Here's the good word...
"I attended the Dad’N’Lads party last night in Gramercy. Here’s a recap of the nights events from midnight on:
When I walked in, there were 20-30 dads and just a handful of lads, most in their underwear, scattered across the two-floor apartment. A few were gently jerking themselves off, but most were watching in silence. On the ground floor, a 30-something lad in cartoon briefs was giving head to an older beefy black guy on his back. He was on his knees blowing the guy’s cock in the center of the room.
When they stopped, the black guy slipped back on his white jockstrap and went down on all fours. The lad positioned himself behind him and starting rimming him. A few moments later, a hairy, obese onlooker pulled down the lad’s briefs and began rimming him.
A couple of dads were jerking one another off but most just watched. They went at it for a while, but once they stopped, the party completely died. The few genuine lads there—one white and two Asian twinks—weren’t playing.
Around 1 a.m. or so, most of the dads went upstairs and a few of them began sucking one another off on the bed. Downstairs, the white twink, with skintight pink and blue boxer briefs, knelt down and began blowing one of the younger dads.
A few of the dads gathered around them, and they started masturbating while the twink sucked his dick. They eventually got in a 69 position, with the older guy rimming and fingering the boy’s hole. When the dad came, the twink swallowed his load and then slipped back on his underwear.
The party had all but ended around 2 a.m., an hour earlier than advertised. My opinion: The party needs a much better dad-to-lad ratio (stricter “dad” entry requirements), real music (not FM radio and its commercials), and some lust kindling (think dad-lad porn)."
I had a terrific repsonse to this review -- but many guys had more questions. I asked the guy who wrote the original review to expand his review, and here's his reponse (thanks, bud!)...
"There were no wristbands or anything to distinguish the lads from dads, so I made the distinction based solely on age. And even more confusing, contrary to what most expect, some guys are into lads-fucking-dads, not the other way around. (But no one was engaged in anal sex the time I was there.)
There were only 3 guys below 30 years old, all twinks, like I wrote. Very few guys (maybe another 3) in their 30s. So 70-80% of the crowd were dads (>40 years old). Big, small, thin, fat, smooth, hairy--all over the place. The only thing they had in common was almost all of them were white.
The problem, of course, is the lads feel outnumbered (and they were, by huge margins), and if they don't play, no one does.
If you're a lad (and open to playing), you'll be in very high demand. The hosts are very watchful, and the dads were respectful of the lads.
Quick correction too: This recap was of their third party, this past Saturday, also in Gramercy."
Peronally, I think a "twink" is 18-23; a "lad" is 24-28; and a dad is 45+ (but that's just me). So if you're a dad or a lad or a twink and into this fetish, here's the info...
DADS'N'LADS (Park Slope and Gramercy). Held at popular sex party space in Brooklyn (first party) or Gramercy (second party), this is a safe sex, no-drugs party for guys who are 18 years old on up. Doors open 10pm. The party ends at 4am. Pants check required for entry. Described by the host: "younger guys into older, and visa versa, or guys who are into the daddy/son fetish."
Send stats and pics to dadsnladsnyc@gmail.com
NEXT PARTY is JUNE 11 in Brooklyn!
"I attended the Dad’N’Lads party last night in Gramercy. Here’s a recap of the nights events from midnight on:When I walked in, there were 20-30 dads and just a handful of lads, most in their underwear, scattered across the two-floor apartment. A few were gently jerking themselves off, but most were watching in silence. On the ground floor, a 30-something lad in cartoon briefs was giving head to an older beefy black guy on his back. He was on his knees blowing the guy’s cock in the center of the room.
When they stopped, the black guy slipped back on his white jockstrap and went down on all fours. The lad positioned himself behind him and starting rimming him. A few moments later, a hairy, obese onlooker pulled down the lad’s briefs and began rimming him.
A couple of dads were jerking one another off but most just watched. They went at it for a while, but once they stopped, the party completely died. The few genuine lads there—one white and two Asian twinks—weren’t playing.
Around 1 a.m. or so, most of the dads went upstairs and a few of them began sucking one another off on the bed. Downstairs, the white twink, with skintight pink and blue boxer briefs, knelt down and began blowing one of the younger dads.
A few of the dads gathered around them, and they started masturbating while the twink sucked his dick. They eventually got in a 69 position, with the older guy rimming and fingering the boy’s hole. When the dad came, the twink swallowed his load and then slipped back on his underwear.
The party had all but ended around 2 a.m., an hour earlier than advertised. My opinion: The party needs a much better dad-to-lad ratio (stricter “dad” entry requirements), real music (not FM radio and its commercials), and some lust kindling (think dad-lad porn)."
I had a terrific repsonse to this review -- but many guys had more questions. I asked the guy who wrote the original review to expand his review, and here's his reponse (thanks, bud!)..."There were no wristbands or anything to distinguish the lads from dads, so I made the distinction based solely on age. And even more confusing, contrary to what most expect, some guys are into lads-fucking-dads, not the other way around. (But no one was engaged in anal sex the time I was there.)
There were only 3 guys below 30 years old, all twinks, like I wrote. Very few guys (maybe another 3) in their 30s. So 70-80% of the crowd were dads (>40 years old). Big, small, thin, fat, smooth, hairy--all over the place. The only thing they had in common was almost all of them were white.
The problem, of course, is the lads feel outnumbered (and they were, by huge margins), and if they don't play, no one does.
If you're a lad (and open to playing), you'll be in very high demand. The hosts are very watchful, and the dads were respectful of the lads.
Quick correction too: This recap was of their third party, this past Saturday, also in Gramercy."
Peronally, I think a "twink" is 18-23; a "lad" is 24-28; and a dad is 45+ (but that's just me). So if you're a dad or a lad or a twink and into this fetish, here's the info...DADS'N'LADS (Park Slope and Gramercy). Held at popular sex party space in Brooklyn (first party) or Gramercy (second party), this is a safe sex, no-drugs party for guys who are 18 years old on up. Doors open 10pm. The party ends at 4am. Pants check required for entry. Described by the host: "younger guys into older, and visa versa, or guys who are into the daddy/son fetish."
Send stats and pics to dadsnladsnyc@gmail.com
NEXT PARTY is JUNE 11 in Brooklyn!
Friday 13 May 2011
A Readers Bitches -- and I Respond
Hey guys, most of the emails that I get are from fans of the site, or pals sending me reviews of the sex parties. But, not to worry, I get plenty of emails from dudes complaining about the blog or the reviews, or telling me what an asshole I am. I'm not saying I'm not asshole -- and there are plenty of ex BF who'd agree, but I couldn't resist publishing this email...
"Evan, Question for you... Where do you get these facts from? I have to say, ALL these parties listed on your blog suck. The number of attendees listed on every party is just not true. There is not one party that gets over 40 men anymore. 40 - 50 men in a lunch party? Really, when? That has NEVER happened. Your personal comments about barebacking should be kept to yourself... Men that go to a party where there is barebacking are fully aware of it... Start stating the facts and keep the BS out! ALL parties at the Gramercy are apollothegreek@earthlink.net just playing games with other email addresses... This is all crazy... Lets grow up!"
So, let's take these one at a time....
I get the facts from #1 parties I attend, and #2 since I can't attend them all (as much as I'd like) from guys who read the blog; and #3 from hosts (who sometime exaggerate).
Now, the lunch parties may suck -- I don't know, I never have time during the day to go. My friend, who used to go, gave me those number a while ago. So, dude, I guess I'm WRONG about the lunch party attendance. Sue me. Will fix it, bud. BUT, dude, you're wrong about the other parties -- plenty of parties get more than 40 guys: NubianDukes and Private Party often get 70-100 guys. No kidding! Oddly, it's the hotter parties that often get big crowds. And there are a handful of very hot parties still out there.
Man -- this is a blog about sex party info -- of course I'm going to say if a party is a BB or safe party. Guys don't know which are which, and are always asking me. Dudes get pissed off if they go to a party, like The Men's Party, and plan to practice safe sex: many of the tops ignore then for the BBers. And I'm sorry if I a safe-sex advocate, but it's MY blog, so FUCK YOU.
And, finally, yes. The host who has parties at the Gramercy Duplex has about half a dozen (or more) different email addresses, and A4A accounts where he tries to rope in hot guys for their parties, which are usually only old dudes. Why? I don't read minds -- ask him. My guess: he wants to make a quick buck. Personally, I don't get it, but many dudes I know walk in, and walk out. Yes, they SUCK that much!
Anyway, dudes -- send me your emails (good or bad). I'm at evanmccarthy9999@yahoo.com. Hope to see you at AM-NY AFTER HOURS PARTY tonight -- their last party was very hot!
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It's raining (complaining) men. Got this email just today -- not sure if it's a repsonse to the above, but it does follow in those lines, so here we go (again)...
"As a visitor to NYC, I found your blog very informative and helpful - thank you. Though I do have a comment: In some of your reviews you rely on others' opinions in order to post a review escepially on places you haven't admittedly been too. As a reviewer myself, I would never trust someone's perceptions of either here or there . The only way to know what really going on in certain places, is to actually experience them for yourself. Its the only way to write a real review, otherwise, what the reader can assume is that it is bad according to your friends perceptions and not that of yours. Some of your reviews are spot on others not so much. Best Regards."
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I'm glad you all like the blog. And I do appreciate your suggestions. Again, it would be near impossible for me to review all the parties, and even if I could, I like to hear other guy’s opinions! The blog is – and should be – a kind of forum. What’s cool is when the reviews start a debate, so dudes can decide for themselves. I have been to parties that I've hated and other guys love, and visa versa -- it's all subjective anyway.
Also, I don’t just post EVERYTHING. I post many reviews from people I know, or guys who have been writing to me for years. Usually I am careful to make sure that the reviews are in line with others I've heard about the party -- or my own experience. If someone wrote an over the top glowing review of OLYMPUS, I'd think it was a fake. Guys are reluctant to "comment" -- but often send me emails (as this guy did), which is why I post them.
Lastly, who the hell am i anyway: you don't know me from Adam, so why should my opinion count more than yours. Keep the reviews and comments coming guys! Thx – play safe and have fun.
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Okay, Okay, Okay -- don't laugh -- the dude who wrote the first complaint about my (FULL OF SHIT) blog, is VERY upset that my response to him by email differed from the response I posted on line. Some guys are so sensitive! So before he gets his panties in a knot, here is the exact correspondence. I tried to make the blog entry more fun than the email (since this isn't a deposition in Federal Court, does it matter?). Personally I don't think it differs much from what I wrote above, I can't understand why he (or you for that matter) would care. Also, if my blog is such crap, why he is reading it? Anyway, dudes, this blog is my opinions and those that I get from readers, good and bad. Am I an asshole?: some would say yes, some no -- like the parties, it's all subjective!!!! But dudes, I am a great cocksucker, an amazing bttm, and a very good top, and totally obsessed with group sex parties, so that's the deal, and that's why (I hope) the blog is fun. Here's the email version of the bitch session (word for word). Read and (yawn) enjoy...
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Re: Adventures in Group Sex
Sunday, May 15, 2011 10:05 AM
From: "Evan McCarthy"
To: XXXX@aol.com
Sorry you feel that way -- my answer to you by email and on the blog are pretty close. The blog just tried to be a little funnier. It's my blog, so I run it the way I want, but I have always been open to suggestions. Meant no offense man. Good luck.
--- On Sat, 5/14/11, XXX@aol.com wrote:
From: XXXX@aol.com
Subject: Re: Adventures in Group Sex
To: evanmccarthy9999@yahoo.com
Date: Saturday, May 14, 2011, 9:23 PM
No, it proves YOU and your blog are full of shit!
In a message dated 5/14/2011 9:15:40 P.M. Eastern Daylight Time, evanmccarthy9999@yahoo.com writes:
Oh, dude -- just fucking around. Don't get pissed.
--- On Sat, 5/14/11, XXX@aol.com wrote:
From: XXX@aol.com
Subject: Re: Adventures in Group Sex
To: evanmccarthy9999@yahoo.com
Date: Saturday, May 14, 2011, 8:59 PM
Dude, you are full of shit... Your blog DOES NOT reflect YOUR communication back with me (your email) SEE BELOW! Fuck me? No fuck YOU dick!
In a message dated 5/12/2011 7:50:53 A.M. Eastern Daylight Time, evanmccarthy9999@yahoo.com writes:
Dude -- I go to as many parties as I can -- and update as often as possible. The lunch parties were that good when I started going and drew that many people. I haven't been in a while. I look to guys to help by updating me. I will fix the listing.
As to BB -- guys ASK me to include that info. Most guys don't know what the party is before they go and BB is an important aspect.
Thanks for your info, man.
Also, there are plenty of parties that drw HUGE crowds of 70-90-100 guys. Those are usually -- and oddly for the hotter guys and more selective parties. I have been to plenty of those myself.
AND lastly -- YES -- the guy who runs The Gramercy Duplex has about a dozen email addresses and names that he uses for different parties. I am as disturbed about it as you are.
--Evan
--- On Wed, 5/11/11, xxxx@aol.com wrote:
From: xxx@aol.com
Subject: Adventures in Group Sex
To: evanmccarthy9999@yahoo.com
Date: Wednesday, May 11, 2011, 11:14 PM
Evan,
Question for you... Where do you get these facts from? I have to say, ALL these parties listed on your blog suck. The number of attendees listed on every party is just not true. There is not one party that gets over 40 men anymore. 40 - 50 men in a lunch party? Really, when? That has NEVER happened. Your personal comments about barebacking should be kept to yourself... Men that go to a party where there is barebacking are fully aware of it... Start stating the facts and keep the BS out! ALL parties at the Gramercy are apollothegreek@earthlink.net just playing games with other email addresses... This is all crazy... Lets grow up!
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THE END (I hope)
"Evan, Question for you... Where do you get these facts from? I have to say, ALL these parties listed on your blog suck. The number of attendees listed on every party is just not true. There is not one party that gets over 40 men anymore. 40 - 50 men in a lunch party? Really, when? That has NEVER happened. Your personal comments about barebacking should be kept to yourself... Men that go to a party where there is barebacking are fully aware of it... Start stating the facts and keep the BS out! ALL parties at the Gramercy are apollothegreek@earthlink.net just playing games with other email addresses... This is all crazy... Lets grow up!"So, let's take these one at a time....
I get the facts from #1 parties I attend, and #2 since I can't attend them all (as much as I'd like) from guys who read the blog; and #3 from hosts (who sometime exaggerate).
Now, the lunch parties may suck -- I don't know, I never have time during the day to go. My friend, who used to go, gave me those number a while ago. So, dude, I guess I'm WRONG about the lunch party attendance. Sue me. Will fix it, bud. BUT, dude, you're wrong about the other parties -- plenty of parties get more than 40 guys: NubianDukes and Private Party often get 70-100 guys. No kidding! Oddly, it's the hotter parties that often get big crowds. And there are a handful of very hot parties still out there.
Man -- this is a blog about sex party info -- of course I'm going to say if a party is a BB or safe party. Guys don't know which are which, and are always asking me. Dudes get pissed off if they go to a party, like The Men's Party, and plan to practice safe sex: many of the tops ignore then for the BBers. And I'm sorry if I a safe-sex advocate, but it's MY blog, so FUCK YOU.
And, finally, yes. The host who has parties at the Gramercy Duplex has about half a dozen (or more) different email addresses, and A4A accounts where he tries to rope in hot guys for their parties, which are usually only old dudes. Why? I don't read minds -- ask him. My guess: he wants to make a quick buck. Personally, I don't get it, but many dudes I know walk in, and walk out. Yes, they SUCK that much!
Anyway, dudes -- send me your emails (good or bad). I'm at evanmccarthy9999@yahoo.com. Hope to see you at AM-NY AFTER HOURS PARTY tonight -- their last party was very hot!
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It's raining (complaining) men. Got this email just today -- not sure if it's a repsonse to the above, but it does follow in those lines, so here we go (again)..."As a visitor to NYC, I found your blog very informative and helpful - thank you. Though I do have a comment: In some of your reviews you rely on others' opinions in order to post a review escepially on places you haven't admittedly been too. As a reviewer myself, I would never trust someone's perceptions of either here or there . The only way to know what really going on in certain places, is to actually experience them for yourself. Its the only way to write a real review, otherwise, what the reader can assume is that it is bad according to your friends perceptions and not that of yours. Some of your reviews are spot on others not so much. Best Regards."
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I'm glad you all like the blog. And I do appreciate your suggestions. Again, it would be near impossible for me to review all the parties, and even if I could, I like to hear other guy’s opinions! The blog is – and should be – a kind of forum. What’s cool is when the reviews start a debate, so dudes can decide for themselves. I have been to parties that I've hated and other guys love, and visa versa -- it's all subjective anyway.
Also, I don’t just post EVERYTHING. I post many reviews from people I know, or guys who have been writing to me for years. Usually I am careful to make sure that the reviews are in line with others I've heard about the party -- or my own experience. If someone wrote an over the top glowing review of OLYMPUS, I'd think it was a fake. Guys are reluctant to "comment" -- but often send me emails (as this guy did), which is why I post them.
Lastly, who the hell am i anyway: you don't know me from Adam, so why should my opinion count more than yours. Keep the reviews and comments coming guys! Thx – play safe and have fun.
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Okay, Okay, Okay -- don't laugh -- the dude who wrote the first complaint about my (FULL OF SHIT) blog, is VERY upset that my response to him by email differed from the response I posted on line. Some guys are so sensitive! So before he gets his panties in a knot, here is the exact correspondence. I tried to make the blog entry more fun than the email (since this isn't a deposition in Federal Court, does it matter?). Personally I don't think it differs much from what I wrote above, I can't understand why he (or you for that matter) would care. Also, if my blog is such crap, why he is reading it? Anyway, dudes, this blog is my opinions and those that I get from readers, good and bad. Am I an asshole?: some would say yes, some no -- like the parties, it's all subjective!!!! But dudes, I am a great cocksucker, an amazing bttm, and a very good top, and totally obsessed with group sex parties, so that's the deal, and that's why (I hope) the blog is fun. Here's the email version of the bitch session (word for word). Read and (yawn) enjoy...
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Re: Adventures in Group Sex
Sunday, May 15, 2011 10:05 AM
From: "Evan McCarthy"
To: XXXX@aol.com
Sorry you feel that way -- my answer to you by email and on the blog are pretty close. The blog just tried to be a little funnier. It's my blog, so I run it the way I want, but I have always been open to suggestions. Meant no offense man. Good luck.
--- On Sat, 5/14/11, XXX@aol.com
From: XXXX@aol.com
Subject: Re: Adventures in Group Sex
To: evanmccarthy9999@yahoo.com
Date: Saturday, May 14, 2011, 9:23 PM
No, it proves YOU and your blog are full of shit!
In a message dated 5/14/2011 9:15:40 P.M. Eastern Daylight Time, evanmccarthy9999@yahoo.com writes:
Oh, dude -- just fucking around. Don't get pissed.
--- On Sat, 5/14/11, XXX@aol.com
From: XXX@aol.com
Subject: Re: Adventures in Group Sex
To: evanmccarthy9999@yahoo.com
Date: Saturday, May 14, 2011, 8:59 PM
Dude, you are full of shit... Your blog DOES NOT reflect YOUR communication back with me (your email) SEE BELOW! Fuck me? No fuck YOU dick!
In a message dated 5/12/2011 7:50:53 A.M. Eastern Daylight Time, evanmccarthy9999@yahoo.com writes:
Dude -- I go to as many parties as I can -- and update as often as possible. The lunch parties were that good when I started going and drew that many people. I haven't been in a while. I look to guys to help by updating me. I will fix the listing.
As to BB -- guys ASK me to include that info. Most guys don't know what the party is before they go and BB is an important aspect.
Thanks for your info, man.
Also, there are plenty of parties that drw HUGE crowds of 70-90-100 guys. Those are usually -- and oddly for the hotter guys and more selective parties. I have been to plenty of those myself.
AND lastly -- YES -- the guy who runs The Gramercy Duplex has about a dozen email addresses and names that he uses for different parties. I am as disturbed about it as you are.
--Evan
--- On Wed, 5/11/11, xxxx@aol.com
From: xxx@aol.com
Subject: Adventures in Group Sex
To: evanmccarthy9999@yahoo.com
Date: Wednesday, May 11, 2011, 11:14 PM
Evan,
Question for you... Where do you get these facts from? I have to say, ALL these parties listed on your blog suck. The number of attendees listed on every party is just not true. There is not one party that gets over 40 men anymore. 40 - 50 men in a lunch party? Really, when? That has NEVER happened. Your personal comments about barebacking should be kept to yourself... Men that go to a party where there is barebacking are fully aware of it... Start stating the facts and keep the BS out! ALL parties at the Gramercy are apollothegreek@earthlink.net just playing games with other email addresses... This is all crazy... Lets grow up!
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THE END (I hope)
Sunday 8 May 2011
GROUP Sex Parties -- Monday, May 9 to Sunday, May 15
Sex Parties -- Monday, May 9 to Sunday, May 15...
***HOT PICKS OF THE WEEK: AM-NYC AFTER HOURS PARTY & UWS UNDERWEAR PARTY (Fri) and Kegger/Golden Boys USA (Sat)
Monday...
JACKS OF COLOR (Chelsea) MASSAGE-&-PLAY, Doors 7:00 to Midnight, goes 'til 2 am @Paddles; A New York City Club For Men of Color "And Their Friends." Has HUGE parties 70-120 guys attend, all ages. An older mixed crowd/for average guys. Email here JacksOfColor@Gmail.com or check out http://www.jacksofcolor.com/
MMX Muscle (Manhattan). HARD BUFF MONDAYS - 7:30pm, Not a sex party, but a massage party…it’s about touch. The hosts says: "however we are a lot of horny guys and we are not going to sweep that under the rug." But no oral or anal sex below the waist. Limited to 20 guys. Host is a certified Massage Therapist. The party is to learn, explore, connect, and play – to learn and get into Massage. They require that all guys are in good physical shape, are clean and take care of themselves, are height/weight proportionate and work-out or are athletic - in addition to having no attitude and comfortable being almost naked (or naked) and touching and stroking muscles with boundaries.
To Get in email the host: mmxnyc@gmail.com and check out www.mmxnyc.com.
MUSCLE GROUP (West Harlem/w140s) Starts at 9/9:30pm (also has lunch-time parties). In small studio apartment. This small sex party really runs the gamut from hot guys to very average dudes. Usually have 4-10 guys -- some 20s- mostly 30s- some 40YOs. Have parties at random, but often on Mondays, 9pm-11pm. The best thing about this party is that it's one of the true orgies. At most parties guys are having sex one-one-one or threesomes--at MUSCLE GROUP there is more often than not a pile of guys fucking/sucking off each other. Also cool, because it's FREE. Two problems: You never know who will be there -- sometimes no hot guys, sometimes no one but you and the host; also the host is a big (out-of-shape) guy, that is a turn off to lots of guys. He's a cool dude, but with an attitude that can be too much for some. And don't believe the pictures he sends -- although those guys may have gone to a party there, they will most likely not be at the party you attend. A mixed crowd/for hot to average guys. *Send pics & Stats to: BIHUNKGROUP@aol.com.
Tuesday…
EXECUTIVE LUNCH (Gramercy). Lunch-time (12-3pm) party. Daytime release for business men and jocks to hook up weekday afternoons, 40-50+ men attend: new added feature is a complimentary massage by our very hot in house masseur.
*For Invite: MUST Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) & Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net.
FOOTMENNYC and TOUCH PARTY GUYS (Chelsea). 8pm - 2am. Not really a full-fledged sex party, but you get…Free Full-Body Massage provider all night, and Curtained play-spaces for your pleasure. Held at The Eagle (28th St., btwn 10th & 11th Aves.) $10 cover, includes drink ticket (21 years old and over). The private party is on the 2nd floor and the roof. Check out the website http://www.footmennyc.com/
THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (East Village). NEW LOCATION. 8pm-1am. Tonight is PEAK: This dude loves theme parties and has a few a week, such as Peak (safe sex), Fusion (wristbands for safe sex), Eruption (not exclusively safe), The XTube Party (which he films for the web), and SIR (for older men and their admirers) – you get the idea. Held in a private apartment. The host (who sometimes participates) describes his party “this is a party for height/weight proportional men over 35. Younger guys come, but they’re usually into older guys. This is an orgy, not a stand & pose cruise party. Racially diverse. A slow night is 15 guys, a busy night is 30. Guys range from great shape to bad shape.” For middle-aged crowd (45-65) out-of-shape guys and their admirers. Check out his cool blog (which trashes me) at http://theorgyguy.blogspot.com or to get in email stats and pics to host at theclubhouseparties@gmail.com.
NEW YORK JACKS (Chelsea/Times Square) Safe-sex party for guys who like to jerk off. They are not selective about who gets in, so the guys run the gamut: all type of bodies, races, and ages from hot young guys to muscle guys to older guys. Tuesdays (Paddles) and Sunday (Times Square). Check out their site: http://www.nyjacks.com/
Wednesday…
EXECUTIVE LUNCH (Gramercy). Lunch-time (12-3pm) party. Daytime release for business men and jocks to hook up weekday afternoons, 40-50+ men attend: new added feature is a complimentary massage by our very hot in house masseur.
*For Invite: MUST Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) & Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net.
ND2 (Midtown). This party is for average African American and Latino dudes ONLY. Mandatory clothes check: boxers, no shirts or t-shirts. Condoms, lube, liquid provided. Hip hop music with a Dj. No attitude and a lot of action. Parties are Wed nights. Send pics and stats to HARLEMDUKESNYC@YAHOO.COM
HARD DRIVE (Chelsea) "An intoxicating blend of sexual possibility and good vibes." Held at Paddles every Wednesday, Doors 8pm-1am, open until 3am. Please be height/weight proportionate and if 55 or over please BE IN GREAT SHAPE. Wear underwear or less. Email here hunteur1@gmail.com or check out www.CumMonkey.com or www.HardDriveMen.com
REAL MEN ONLY (RMO) PARTY (Fresh Meadows) Slurpee Coach has the parties weekly on Wed eve 7-11pm. For older/average guys. To get in, email pics/stats here: slurpeecoach@hotmail.com.
MILK CHOCOLATE PARY (Gramercy). MAN MEAT AFTER WORK PARTY, 7:30pm - 12mid. According to the host, they screen to invite men of all colors age 21-45 to keep the party hot. They have a number of theme parties from Latino, to Hung Men, to Black Out. For average guys.
Send stats and pics to milkchocolatenyc@gmail.com
Thursday…
EXECUTIVE LUNCH (Gramercy). Lunch-time (12-3pm) party. Daytime release for business men and jocks to hook up weekday afternoons, 40-50+ men attend: new added feature is a complimentary massage by our very hot in house masseur.
*For Invite: MUST Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) & Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net.
THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (East Village). NEW LOCATION. 8pm-1am. Tonight is ERUPTION party: This dude loves theme parties and has a few a week, such as Peak (safe sex), Fusion (wristbands for safe sex), Eruption (not exclusively safe), The XTube Party (which he films for the web), and SIR (for older men and their admirers) – you get the idea. Held in a private apartment. The host (who sometimes participates) describes his party “this is a party for height/weight proportional men over 35. Younger guys come, but they’re usually into older guys. This is an orgy, not a stand & pose cruise party. Racially diverse. A slow night is 15 guys, a busy night is 30. Guys range from great shape to bad shape.” For middle-aged crowd (45-65) out-of-shape guys and their admirers. Check out his cool blog (which trashes me) at http://theorgyguy.blogspot.com or to get in email stats and pics to host at theclubhouseparties@gmail.com.
OPEN HOUSE PARTY (Gramercy). So ROCK SOLID and some other parties at Gramercy have merged. This party is combined with SQUIRT. They claim be very selective, but a few guys emailed me about last Thursday's party which was very mixed: mostly old, out-of-shape guys. To get in send pics and stats to this email: aopenhouseparty@gmail.com.
SQUIRT PARTY (Gramercy). Held in a huge duplex. Every Thursday night from 7pm to 11pm. Never been to this one, but friends have and reported back: except for a few suckers who are fooled into showing up every week, and quickly leave, this party is basically an open-door party judging by the aggressive out-of-shape old dudes who roam the floors, and don’t understand the word NO, or DON’T TOUCH ME – also, if that isn’t bad enough safe-sex is not encouraged. Not sure who the host thinks he is fooling using all those different email addresses for the same gross parties with the same old regulars.
*For Invite: MUST Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) & Stats to: riverasaro@yahoo.com.
Friday...
UPPER WEST SIDE UNDERWEAR PARTY (UWS) Doors open 10:30 to 12:01am (The party goes until its dead). There is no cover. Free liquor provided. This is a private apartment in a doorman building so discretion is a must. This is a private party so only the people who have been approved are invited. This is a fun atmosphere to chill hang out and play with hot guys. No obligation to participate if you don't want to. Will have porn and lube and condoms as well. For a young/hot crowd. To get in send pics and stats to underwearpartyuws@gmail.com.
AM-NYC AFTER HOURS PARTY (Midtown). AM is a private, selective, and hot party only for good looking in shape guys. Get about 80 guys. This is a SAFE & DRUG FREE PARTY. Late-night party that takes place after you've been everywhere else: Starts at 11pm and goes until 6am Saturday morning; Condoms, lube, water, Gatorade and more is provided. Same dude runs this who runs NYJP (and has a similar very hot crowd to NYJP--when it was in Manhattan). A safe sex party.
For invite, email James: aminnyc1@yahoo.com
MMX Muscle (Manhattan). Happy Hours Jock Friday - 7:00p, Not a sex party, but a massage party…it’s about touch. The hosts says: "however we are a lot of horny guys and we are not going to sweep that under the rug." But no oral or anal sex below the waist. Limited to 20 guys. Host is a certified Massage Therapist. The party is to learn, explore, connect, and play – to learn and get into Massage. They require that all guys are in good physical shape, are clean and take care of themselves, are height/weight proportionate and work-out or are athletic - in addition to having no attitude and comfortable being almost naked (or naked) and touching and stroking muscles with boundaries.
To Get in email the host: mmxnyc@gmail.com and check out www.mmxnyc.com.
THE OLYMPUS PARTY (Gramercy). Held in a huge duplex. This is an umbrella for a number of different types of parties: RAW RORK, SQUIRT, PORN STARS and it seems like a dozen others. Mostly older, out of shape guys. *For Invite: MUST Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) & Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net.
THE OMEGA PARTY (Midtown West). BACK IN MIDTOWN. They get 70 to 120 guys per party (Sunday being the biggest night). The parties are laid back, mix/general crowd. The age mix ranges from 20 to 60YO, all races (60% white, 40% mixed), muscle, thin, cute, bear etc. Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube provided. Time: Fridays open from 9pm to 4am. An older mixed crowd/for average guys. Anybody wanting to go to the party should email roccosly@aol.com or http://www.theomegaroom.com/.
THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY (Brooklyn) 12:00-7:00am. Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks. Safe sex only for in shape guys—huge space (2 huge floors), fresh towels and condoms/lube provided, (12midnight-7am). It’s a safe and clean place. lots of space. a bit dark but eyes get used to it. TO GET IN: http://thugs4thugsex.com or email bkthugparty@earthlink.net
BROOKLYN HOODS (Crown Heights, Brooklyn). Predominately African-American crowd, but anyone welcome. Fridays: 9:00pm - 6am (Safe Sex party). This party is a Big Men's Private Party. This party is for Big Men and for those who are looking to meet Big Men. This is an all race party. No age limit above 18 years of age or older. All men are invited. To get in email stats and pics to BROOKLYNHOODS@GMAIL.COM.
Saturday…
COLLEGE WATER SPORTS KEGGER PARTY and GOLDEN BOYS USA (Brooklyn) Held in the basement space in a brownstone. 10pm - 4am (Most guys arrive between 11pm-1am but doors will remain open late). Only accept guys who are in-shape, 18-30 years old. Have regular rooms and wet rooms (even though there is a water sports theme, you don't have to be into W/S to have fun at this party). Usually 75-120 guys attend, all 20 YOs, $25. For a younger/hot crowd.
Email here ChrisHawkeGBU@aol.com or check out www.GoldenBoysUSA.com
LOAD NYC (East Village). Underwear party held at Blue Door Video Basement for in-shape guys. 90 guys, porn. For hot/younger crowd. To get in email pics/stats to Loadnyc@aol.com.
DADS'N'LADS (Gramercy). For younger guys into older, and visa versa, or guys who are into the daddy/son fetish. Held at the Duplex, this is a safe sex, no-drugs party for guys who are 18 years old on up. 10pm to 3am. The party ends at 4am. Condoms/lube provided. NO drugs or alcohol. You must strip down to your underwear (there is a secure clothes check facility). From the host: “Dads: please be well-groomed and reasonably h/w proportionate. Also—be respectful of the lads. “No” means no. Sons: be ready to play!"
Send stats and pics to dadsnladsnyc@gmail.com
THUGS 4 THUG SEX PARTY (Brooklyn) 9:00pm-3:00am. Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks. Safe sex only for in shape guys—huge space (2 huge floors), fresh towels and condoms/lube provided, (12midnight-7am). It’s a safe and clean place. lots of space. a bit dark but eyes get used to it. http://thugs4thugsex.com/ or email bkthugparty@earthlink.net
DICKPLAY PARTY (Inwood/Upper Manhattan) The Local Flavor. 8pm-2am. Held in a private apartment by Ed & Steve, an interracial gay couple -- this party meets about twice a month is a laid-back mixed crowd of mostly older in-shape guys. It's promoted as an interracial erotic play party. Most guys are naked, but not required. The hosts think of the group as being a hand selected group of guys who are into interracial sex and don't have attitudes. It's a mix of guys, white, black, Latin, occasionally Asian, not too young, not too old. Average age is 35-45+. They get about 40+ guys. Yes, the hosts provide condoms, but I hear that 75-80% of the fucking is BB. The atmosphere is distinctly no attitude. $20 donation.
To get in, Email: EdAndSteve@verizon.net; or check out http://groups.yahoo.com/group/EdAndSteve.
WHITE PONY PARTY (Forest Hills) The host (White Pony) is a great guy, and def a nice no attitude party in pvt 1st fl apt. He has it on Saturday night from 8pm till 2am. Mostly older guys. Email for invite: whitepony3332@yahoo.com
THE BEAR HUNT (West Harlem). Run by the same people who run The Men's Party. For bears and their admirers. 10pm-3. NYC's longest running weekly sex bear party. Bears, chubs & chasers of ALL races, ages & sizes. Sling, condoms, lube, cocktails & clothes check provided. An older mixed crowd/for average to out of shape guys.
Send pic to BearHuntNYC@yahoo.com or check out www.bearhuntnyc.com
FOREVER FISTING PARTY: Open door policy, every 2nd Wednesday at "Chelsea Space" – Contact Cain at MasterCainB@yahoo.com or check out www.ffslingers.com.
LONG ISLAND BI-SEXUAL GROUP (Long Island). Guys & Gals Party. LI-BI-do is a Bisexual social group that hold parties for Couples, women, trans, and men are all welcome. You can be Bisexual, Bi-friendly, or Bi-curious. How to join LI-BI-do: Go to Home Page: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/LI-BI-do, Send blank email to: LI-BI-do-Subscribe@yahoogroups.com or check out: http://www.li-bi-do.org.
Sunday…
NEW YORK BONDAGE CLUB (Chelsea) 7pm-1am @Paddles. Sex is no longer banned. Sucking, fucking, whatever, are all allowed now at all times. It's common to see guys tied down and fucked. Or a dom directing sex between two roped subs. Held in a straight S&M club, the party scene includes cages, restraints, bondage crosses, stocks and all sorts of devices to aid in tying people up and getting them off. They now stay open later (until at least 1 AM instead of 11 PM) and at 11 PM they turn down the lights in all areas except the bar at the front. In these darker areas, there's now a dress code of no street clothes. You have to wear no more than underwear, or you can wear fetish wear (leather, rubber, and the like). They have started promotions to get younger guys in. But for anyone who has a taste for sex with a kinky side (leather, rope, spanking, etc) it's a good place to get satisfied on a Sunday night. Check out: http://www.nybondageclub.com/
NEW YORK JACKS (Chelsea/Times Square) Safe-sex party for guys who like to jerk off. They are not selective about who gets in, so the guys run the gamut: all type of bodies, races, and ages from hot young guys to muscle guys to older guys. Tuesdays (Paddles) and Sunday (Times Square). Check out their site: http://www.nyjacks.com/
THE OMEGA PARTY (Midtown West). BACK IN MIDTOWN. They get 70 to 120 guys per party (Sunday being the biggest night). The parties are laid back, mix/general crowd. The age mix ranges from 20 to 60YO, all races (60% white, 40% mixed), muscle, thin, cute, bear etc. Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube provided. Time: Sundays open 6pm to 2am. An older mixed crowd/for average guys. Anybody wanting to go to the party should email roccosly@aol.com or http://www.theomegaroom.com/.
THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY ( Brooklyn ) Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks. Safe sex only for in shape guys—huge space (2 huge floors), fresh towels and condoms/lube provided, (9pm-3am). It’s a safe and clean place. lots of space. a bit dark but eyes get used to it. http://thugs4thugsex.com/ or email bkthugparty@earthlink.net
THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (East Village). NEW LOCATION: 8pm-1am. Tonight is ERUPTION party: This dude loves theme parties and has a few a week, such as Peak (safe sex), Fusion (wristbands for safe sex), Eruption (not exclusively safe), The XTube Party (which he films for the web), and SIR (for older men and their admirers) – you get the idea. Held in a private apartment. The host (who sometimes participates) describes his party “this is a party for height/weight proportional men over 35. Younger guys come, but they’re usually into older guys. This is an orgy, not a stand & pose cruise party. Racially diverse. A slow night is 15 guys, a busy night is 30. Guys range from great shape to bad shape.” For middle-aged crowd (45-65) out-of-shape guys and their admirers. Check out his cool blog (which trashes me) at http://theorgyguy.blogspot.com or to get in email stats and pics to host at theclubhouseparties@gmail.com.
REAL MEN ONLY (RMO) PARTY (Fresh Meadows, Queens) Sunday afternoon 4pm-1ppm. For older/average guys. To get in, email pics/stats here: slurpeecoach@hotmail.com.
***HOT PICKS OF THE WEEK: AM-NYC AFTER HOURS PARTY & UWS UNDERWEAR PARTY (Fri) and Kegger/Golden Boys USA (Sat)
Monday...
JACKS OF COLOR (Chelsea) MASSAGE-&-PLAY, Doors 7:00 to Midnight, goes 'til 2 am @Paddles; A New York City Club For Men of Color "And Their Friends." Has HUGE parties 70-120 guys attend, all ages. An older mixed crowd/for average guys. Email here JacksOfColor@Gmail.com or check out http://www.jacksofcolor.com/
MMX Muscle (Manhattan). HARD BUFF MONDAYS - 7:30pm, Not a sex party, but a massage party…it’s about touch. The hosts says: "however we are a lot of horny guys and we are not going to sweep that under the rug." But no oral or anal sex below the waist. Limited to 20 guys. Host is a certified Massage Therapist. The party is to learn, explore, connect, and play – to learn and get into Massage. They require that all guys are in good physical shape, are clean and take care of themselves, are height/weight proportionate and work-out or are athletic - in addition to having no attitude and comfortable being almost naked (or naked) and touching and stroking muscles with boundaries.
To Get in email the host: mmxnyc@gmail.com and check out www.mmxnyc.com.
MUSCLE GROUP (West Harlem/w140s) Starts at 9/9:30pm (also has lunch-time parties). In small studio apartment. This small sex party really runs the gamut from hot guys to very average dudes. Usually have 4-10 guys -- some 20s- mostly 30s- some 40YOs. Have parties at random, but often on Mondays, 9pm-11pm. The best thing about this party is that it's one of the true orgies. At most parties guys are having sex one-one-one or threesomes--at MUSCLE GROUP there is more often than not a pile of guys fucking/sucking off each other. Also cool, because it's FREE. Two problems: You never know who will be there -- sometimes no hot guys, sometimes no one but you and the host; also the host is a big (out-of-shape) guy, that is a turn off to lots of guys. He's a cool dude, but with an attitude that can be too much for some. And don't believe the pictures he sends -- although those guys may have gone to a party there, they will most likely not be at the party you attend. A mixed crowd/for hot to average guys. *Send pics & Stats to: BIHUNKGROUP@aol.com.
Tuesday… EXECUTIVE LUNCH (Gramercy). Lunch-time (12-3pm) party. Daytime release for business men and jocks to hook up weekday afternoons, 40-50+ men attend: new added feature is a complimentary massage by our very hot in house masseur.
*For Invite: MUST Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) & Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net.
FOOTMENNYC and TOUCH PARTY GUYS (Chelsea). 8pm - 2am. Not really a full-fledged sex party, but you get…Free Full-Body Massage provider all night, and Curtained play-spaces for your pleasure. Held at The Eagle (28th St., btwn 10th & 11th Aves.) $10 cover, includes drink ticket (21 years old and over). The private party is on the 2nd floor and the roof. Check out the website http://www.footmennyc.com/
THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (East Village). NEW LOCATION. 8pm-1am. Tonight is PEAK: This dude loves theme parties and has a few a week, such as Peak (safe sex), Fusion (wristbands for safe sex), Eruption (not exclusively safe), The XTube Party (which he films for the web), and SIR (for older men and their admirers) – you get the idea. Held in a private apartment. The host (who sometimes participates) describes his party “this is a party for height/weight proportional men over 35. Younger guys come, but they’re usually into older guys. This is an orgy, not a stand & pose cruise party. Racially diverse. A slow night is 15 guys, a busy night is 30. Guys range from great shape to bad shape.” For middle-aged crowd (45-65) out-of-shape guys and their admirers. Check out his cool blog (which trashes me) at http://theorgyguy.blogspot.com or to get in email stats and pics to host at theclubhouseparties@gmail.com.
NEW YORK JACKS (Chelsea/Times Square) Safe-sex party for guys who like to jerk off. They are not selective about who gets in, so the guys run the gamut: all type of bodies, races, and ages from hot young guys to muscle guys to older guys. Tuesdays (Paddles) and Sunday (Times Square). Check out their site: http://www.nyjacks.com/
Wednesday… EXECUTIVE LUNCH (Gramercy). Lunch-time (12-3pm) party. Daytime release for business men and jocks to hook up weekday afternoons, 40-50+ men attend: new added feature is a complimentary massage by our very hot in house masseur.
*For Invite: MUST Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) & Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net.
ND2 (Midtown). This party is for average African American and Latino dudes ONLY. Mandatory clothes check: boxers, no shirts or t-shirts. Condoms, lube, liquid provided. Hip hop music with a Dj. No attitude and a lot of action. Parties are Wed nights. Send pics and stats to HARLEMDUKESNYC@YAHOO.COM
HARD DRIVE (Chelsea) "An intoxicating blend of sexual possibility and good vibes." Held at Paddles every Wednesday, Doors 8pm-1am, open until 3am. Please be height/weight proportionate and if 55 or over please BE IN GREAT SHAPE. Wear underwear or less. Email here hunteur1@gmail.com or check out www.CumMonkey.com or www.HardDriveMen.com
REAL MEN ONLY (RMO) PARTY (Fresh Meadows) Slurpee Coach has the parties weekly on Wed eve 7-11pm. For older/average guys. To get in, email pics/stats here: slurpeecoach@hotmail.com.
MILK CHOCOLATE PARY (Gramercy). MAN MEAT AFTER WORK PARTY, 7:30pm - 12mid. According to the host, they screen to invite men of all colors age 21-45 to keep the party hot. They have a number of theme parties from Latino, to Hung Men, to Black Out. For average guys.
Send stats and pics to milkchocolatenyc@gmail.com
Thursday… EXECUTIVE LUNCH (Gramercy). Lunch-time (12-3pm) party. Daytime release for business men and jocks to hook up weekday afternoons, 40-50+ men attend: new added feature is a complimentary massage by our very hot in house masseur.
*For Invite: MUST Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) & Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net.
THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (East Village). NEW LOCATION. 8pm-1am. Tonight is ERUPTION party: This dude loves theme parties and has a few a week, such as Peak (safe sex), Fusion (wristbands for safe sex), Eruption (not exclusively safe), The XTube Party (which he films for the web), and SIR (for older men and their admirers) – you get the idea. Held in a private apartment. The host (who sometimes participates) describes his party “this is a party for height/weight proportional men over 35. Younger guys come, but they’re usually into older guys. This is an orgy, not a stand & pose cruise party. Racially diverse. A slow night is 15 guys, a busy night is 30. Guys range from great shape to bad shape.” For middle-aged crowd (45-65) out-of-shape guys and their admirers. Check out his cool blog (which trashes me) at http://theorgyguy.blogspot.com or to get in email stats and pics to host at theclubhouseparties@gmail.com.
OPEN HOUSE PARTY (Gramercy). So ROCK SOLID and some other parties at Gramercy have merged. This party is combined with SQUIRT. They claim be very selective, but a few guys emailed me about last Thursday's party which was very mixed: mostly old, out-of-shape guys. To get in send pics and stats to this email: aopenhouseparty@gmail.com.
SQUIRT PARTY (Gramercy). Held in a huge duplex. Every Thursday night from 7pm to 11pm. Never been to this one, but friends have and reported back: except for a few suckers who are fooled into showing up every week, and quickly leave, this party is basically an open-door party judging by the aggressive out-of-shape old dudes who roam the floors, and don’t understand the word NO, or DON’T TOUCH ME – also, if that isn’t bad enough safe-sex is not encouraged. Not sure who the host thinks he is fooling using all those different email addresses for the same gross parties with the same old regulars.
*For Invite: MUST Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) & Stats to: riverasaro@yahoo.com.
Friday... UPPER WEST SIDE UNDERWEAR PARTY (UWS) Doors open 10:30 to 12:01am (The party goes until its dead). There is no cover. Free liquor provided. This is a private apartment in a doorman building so discretion is a must. This is a private party so only the people who have been approved are invited. This is a fun atmosphere to chill hang out and play with hot guys. No obligation to participate if you don't want to. Will have porn and lube and condoms as well. For a young/hot crowd. To get in send pics and stats to underwearpartyuws@gmail.com.
AM-NYC AFTER HOURS PARTY (Midtown). AM is a private, selective, and hot party only for good looking in shape guys. Get about 80 guys. This is a SAFE & DRUG FREE PARTY. Late-night party that takes place after you've been everywhere else: Starts at 11pm and goes until 6am Saturday morning; Condoms, lube, water, Gatorade and more is provided. Same dude runs this who runs NYJP (and has a similar very hot crowd to NYJP--when it was in Manhattan). A safe sex party.
For invite, email James: aminnyc1@yahoo.com
MMX Muscle (Manhattan). Happy Hours Jock Friday - 7:00p, Not a sex party, but a massage party…it’s about touch. The hosts says: "however we are a lot of horny guys and we are not going to sweep that under the rug." But no oral or anal sex below the waist. Limited to 20 guys. Host is a certified Massage Therapist. The party is to learn, explore, connect, and play – to learn and get into Massage. They require that all guys are in good physical shape, are clean and take care of themselves, are height/weight proportionate and work-out or are athletic - in addition to having no attitude and comfortable being almost naked (or naked) and touching and stroking muscles with boundaries.
To Get in email the host: mmxnyc@gmail.com and check out www.mmxnyc.com.
THE OLYMPUS PARTY (Gramercy). Held in a huge duplex. This is an umbrella for a number of different types of parties: RAW RORK, SQUIRT, PORN STARS and it seems like a dozen others. Mostly older, out of shape guys. *For Invite: MUST Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) & Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net.
THE OMEGA PARTY (Midtown West). BACK IN MIDTOWN. They get 70 to 120 guys per party (Sunday being the biggest night). The parties are laid back, mix/general crowd. The age mix ranges from 20 to 60YO, all races (60% white, 40% mixed), muscle, thin, cute, bear etc. Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube provided. Time: Fridays open from 9pm to 4am. An older mixed crowd/for average guys. Anybody wanting to go to the party should email roccosly@aol.com or http://www.theomegaroom.com/.
THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY (Brooklyn) 12:00-7:00am. Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks. Safe sex only for in shape guys—huge space (2 huge floors), fresh towels and condoms/lube provided, (12midnight-7am). It’s a safe and clean place. lots of space. a bit dark but eyes get used to it. TO GET IN: http://thugs4thugsex.com or email bkthugparty@earthlink.net
BROOKLYN HOODS (Crown Heights, Brooklyn). Predominately African-American crowd, but anyone welcome. Fridays: 9:00pm - 6am (Safe Sex party). This party is a Big Men's Private Party. This party is for Big Men and for those who are looking to meet Big Men. This is an all race party. No age limit above 18 years of age or older. All men are invited. To get in email stats and pics to BROOKLYNHOODS@GMAIL.COM.
Saturday… COLLEGE WATER SPORTS KEGGER PARTY and GOLDEN BOYS USA (Brooklyn) Held in the basement space in a brownstone. 10pm - 4am (Most guys arrive between 11pm-1am but doors will remain open late). Only accept guys who are in-shape, 18-30 years old. Have regular rooms and wet rooms (even though there is a water sports theme, you don't have to be into W/S to have fun at this party). Usually 75-120 guys attend, all 20 YOs, $25. For a younger/hot crowd.
Email here ChrisHawkeGBU@aol.com or check out www.GoldenBoysUSA.com
LOAD NYC (East Village). Underwear party held at Blue Door Video Basement for in-shape guys. 90 guys, porn. For hot/younger crowd. To get in email pics/stats to Loadnyc@aol.com.
DADS'N'LADS (Gramercy). For younger guys into older, and visa versa, or guys who are into the daddy/son fetish. Held at the Duplex, this is a safe sex, no-drugs party for guys who are 18 years old on up. 10pm to 3am. The party ends at 4am. Condoms/lube provided. NO drugs or alcohol. You must strip down to your underwear (there is a secure clothes check facility). From the host: “Dads: please be well-groomed and reasonably h/w proportionate. Also—be respectful of the lads. “No” means no. Sons: be ready to play!"
Send stats and pics to dadsnladsnyc@gmail.com
THUGS 4 THUG SEX PARTY (Brooklyn) 9:00pm-3:00am. Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks. Safe sex only for in shape guys—huge space (2 huge floors), fresh towels and condoms/lube provided, (12midnight-7am). It’s a safe and clean place. lots of space. a bit dark but eyes get used to it. http://thugs4thugsex.com/ or email bkthugparty@earthlink.net
DICKPLAY PARTY (Inwood/Upper Manhattan) The Local Flavor. 8pm-2am. Held in a private apartment by Ed & Steve, an interracial gay couple -- this party meets about twice a month is a laid-back mixed crowd of mostly older in-shape guys. It's promoted as an interracial erotic play party. Most guys are naked, but not required. The hosts think of the group as being a hand selected group of guys who are into interracial sex and don't have attitudes. It's a mix of guys, white, black, Latin, occasionally Asian, not too young, not too old. Average age is 35-45+. They get about 40+ guys. Yes, the hosts provide condoms, but I hear that 75-80% of the fucking is BB. The atmosphere is distinctly no attitude. $20 donation.
To get in, Email: EdAndSteve@verizon.net; or check out http://groups.yahoo.com/group/EdAndSteve.
WHITE PONY PARTY (Forest Hills) The host (White Pony) is a great guy, and def a nice no attitude party in pvt 1st fl apt. He has it on Saturday night from 8pm till 2am. Mostly older guys. Email for invite: whitepony3332@yahoo.com
THE BEAR HUNT (West Harlem). Run by the same people who run The Men's Party. For bears and their admirers. 10pm-3. NYC's longest running weekly sex bear party. Bears, chubs & chasers of ALL races, ages & sizes. Sling, condoms, lube, cocktails & clothes check provided. An older mixed crowd/for average to out of shape guys.
Send pic to BearHuntNYC@yahoo.com or check out www.bearhuntnyc.com
FOREVER FISTING PARTY: Open door policy, every 2nd Wednesday at "Chelsea Space" – Contact Cain at MasterCainB@yahoo.com or check out www.ffslingers.com.
LONG ISLAND BI-SEXUAL GROUP (Long Island). Guys & Gals Party. LI-BI-do is a Bisexual social group that hold parties for Couples, women, trans, and men are all welcome. You can be Bisexual, Bi-friendly, or Bi-curious. How to join LI-BI-do: Go to Home Page: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/LI-BI-do, Send blank email to: LI-BI-do-Subscribe@yahoogroups.com or check out: http://www.li-bi-do.org.
Sunday… NEW YORK BONDAGE CLUB (Chelsea) 7pm-1am @Paddles. Sex is no longer banned. Sucking, fucking, whatever, are all allowed now at all times. It's common to see guys tied down and fucked. Or a dom directing sex between two roped subs. Held in a straight S&M club, the party scene includes cages, restraints, bondage crosses, stocks and all sorts of devices to aid in tying people up and getting them off. They now stay open later (until at least 1 AM instead of 11 PM) and at 11 PM they turn down the lights in all areas except the bar at the front. In these darker areas, there's now a dress code of no street clothes. You have to wear no more than underwear, or you can wear fetish wear (leather, rubber, and the like). They have started promotions to get younger guys in. But for anyone who has a taste for sex with a kinky side (leather, rope, spanking, etc) it's a good place to get satisfied on a Sunday night. Check out: http://www.nybondageclub.com/
NEW YORK JACKS (Chelsea/Times Square) Safe-sex party for guys who like to jerk off. They are not selective about who gets in, so the guys run the gamut: all type of bodies, races, and ages from hot young guys to muscle guys to older guys. Tuesdays (Paddles) and Sunday (Times Square). Check out their site: http://www.nyjacks.com/
THE OMEGA PARTY (Midtown West). BACK IN MIDTOWN. They get 70 to 120 guys per party (Sunday being the biggest night). The parties are laid back, mix/general crowd. The age mix ranges from 20 to 60YO, all races (60% white, 40% mixed), muscle, thin, cute, bear etc. Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube provided. Time: Sundays open 6pm to 2am. An older mixed crowd/for average guys. Anybody wanting to go to the party should email roccosly@aol.com or http://www.theomegaroom.com/.
THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY ( Brooklyn ) Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks. Safe sex only for in shape guys—huge space (2 huge floors), fresh towels and condoms/lube provided, (9pm-3am). It’s a safe and clean place. lots of space. a bit dark but eyes get used to it. http://thugs4thugsex.com/ or email bkthugparty@earthlink.net
THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (East Village). NEW LOCATION: 8pm-1am. Tonight is ERUPTION party: This dude loves theme parties and has a few a week, such as Peak (safe sex), Fusion (wristbands for safe sex), Eruption (not exclusively safe), The XTube Party (which he films for the web), and SIR (for older men and their admirers) – you get the idea. Held in a private apartment. The host (who sometimes participates) describes his party “this is a party for height/weight proportional men over 35. Younger guys come, but they’re usually into older guys. This is an orgy, not a stand & pose cruise party. Racially diverse. A slow night is 15 guys, a busy night is 30. Guys range from great shape to bad shape.” For middle-aged crowd (45-65) out-of-shape guys and their admirers. Check out his cool blog (which trashes me) at http://theorgyguy.blogspot.com or to get in email stats and pics to host at theclubhouseparties@gmail.com.
REAL MEN ONLY (RMO) PARTY (Fresh Meadows, Queens) Sunday afternoon 4pm-1ppm. For older/average guys. To get in, email pics/stats here: slurpeecoach@hotmail.com.
