New York By Night (Garment District)

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Went the the great New York By Night party last Wednesday (3/18). They had a huge turnout -- at least 100 guys. I heard from the host that he had at least 25 new guys. The crowd ran a wide variety from the twinks (and their admirers) -- who all seemed to migrate to the couch by the TV (playing porn) to the muscular guys who were fucking on the sectional. There were every kind of guy in between Was a hot time. Got fucked and fucked more often than I care to admit...had one less guy than I wanted, and one more than I should have.Already looking...

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Next Magazine: Always wanted to try a sex party?

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And don't miss this article (not mine)...http://www.nextmagazine.com/features/index.phpThe Life of the PartyPhotographer Joe Oppedisano takes fetish fashion below the bible’s beltAlways wanted to try a sex party? From the kinky to the vanilla, find one that’s right for youOne of the best things about living in Manhattan is that you can get whatever you want any time you want it. Sex parties are no exception to the rule. Many people know that they exist, but don’t know where to find them or are too nervous to actually try one out. So we’re taking...

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Happy Landing (Brooklyn)

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HAPPY LANDING (Brooklyn)From Next..."like a scene from John Cameron Mitchell’s film Shortbus, Happy Landing is a Brooklyn queer art/music/sex party. Held in a secret warehouse basement, the party’s patrons are greeted with a bright neon wonderland (the walls are literally covered in neon-painted junk) where DJs spin, liquor flows and boys and girls (yes, vagina) roam around in various states of undress. While the winding backroom maze features a mattress and a sling, the atmosphere is more hipster social than dirty dungeon." ($0–$20 admission),...

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New York Bondage Club (Chelsea)

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Paying for Sex?

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People always ask me why should they should pay to get into these parties...or in essence, pay for sex..."Good sex is worth paying for if you have the money, just as a good concert is worth the price of admission..." (Rick Whitaker, Assuming the Position).I agree -- also, you are paying for help cover the cost of the space, the condoms, the booze, and the energy is went into putting it together. If you've ever tried to even set up a threesome, you know how difficult a setting up a sex party can be.It's usually $20 or $25, which you'd just waste...

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RMO – Real Men Only (Queens)

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REAL MEN ONLY PARTY (Fresh Meadows, Queens)Apartment, may move to a hotel. No attitude group orgy; Mixed group: 20s-40s, all races, no attitude. Saturday nights & Sundays afternoons. Donation – $5.00Respectful, very discrete, and no attitude group orgy... This party caters to men of all ages, all races, all sizes, and all cocks.. No pressure party for real men that like to be intimate with other real men. Tops, bottoms, gay, straight, curious, bi-sexual, tri-sexual…it’s all good. They do not discriminate; no drama, no attitude – just a chill...

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Body Builder Sex Party (Manhattan)

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BODY BUILDER SEX PARTY (Manhattan) For body builders only (and their slaves). The parties are always held in discreet locations with at least 10 bodybuilders.Body Builders: Must be very well built (bodybuilder physiques NOT swimmers builds) You are free to bring along your own sex partner (male or female) to the parties. This is NOT JUST A SEX PARTY. This party is for muscle into muscle for mutual muscle play, and an opportunity to meet with and increase your network of bodybuilder friends.Slaves: From time to time they invite a number of slave...

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Gallery of Men Party (Garment District)

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GALLERY OF MEN (Garment District) Every two weeks, guys in their 20s - 40s. Smoking area within the facility. $20 admission first hour, $25 after that.Okay men...I've never been to this, just heard about it today. The guy wrote me that dudes who go are mostly holdovers from GCN/Studio days -- which means a mix of guys. Unfortunately, he reports that there's a lot of BB fucking, which is not cool at a group sex party (at least in my opinion). Anyway, I hope to give it a try. Be safe...Must email face & body pics & stats to...mailto:pics...

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Red Light Zone Party (Jersey City)

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RED LIGHT ZONE PARTY (Jersey City, NJ) The place is clean and there's no attitude. Door open 11pm-3am, but you can stay to 5am. Snacks, drinks, beer, alcohol, condoms and lube all provided free all night! $20 donation at the door. Those who come Friday get half off on Saturday.I haven't been to this yet -- but may go this weekend. A friend got me invited. This is what someone wrote me..."Party is close to Journal Square — a huge PATH hub in Jersey — and has a very attractive host. The first time I went, I met a couple of hung daddies, but...

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Sticky Rice Party (Gramercy)

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STICKY RICE PARTY (Gramercy) An exclusive Asian-only sex party in NYC for "young, hot, lean, in shape Asian guys" between 18 - 35. Everyone pitches in for cost of hotel, and brings their own condoms. Saturdays.Needles to say, I've never been. If you are an Asian dude, only into other Asian dudes, then man here is Mecca.email for invite: sticky-rice-party-nyc@googlegroups....

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Cum Monkey/Grab Ass Party (Chelsea)

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Cum Monkey/Grab Ass Party (Chelsea) Studio space, not apartment. Usually 30-50 guys attend, from 20-30-40 YOs. Every Wednesday. $25, plus $2 for clothes check.Since this re-started a few months ago is much better class of guys, much hotter mix, some attitude. The host is very cool. Can be an amazing group of guys -- sometime lots of very hot guys -- usually a mix of ages and body types -- always someone fuckable, and lots of guys, so you're pretty much guaranteed a good time. Check it out at... www.CumMonkey....

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A-Plus Muscle (Downtown)

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A-Plus Muscle (Downtown) Hot Muscle Studs only.Has anyone ever been to this? I found it listed in HX-- but have never been.Try emailing them at aplusmuscle@aol....

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Hot Brooklyn Party (Brooklyn)

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Hot Brooklyn Party (Brooklyn) Hot group of guys, some attitude. 30-60 guys attend in their 20-40s. $25 for new guys, $15 for members, $10 for hot students.Send pics & Stats to: hotbklynparty@prodigy....

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The Massage Party (Brooklyn)

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Touch in Brooklyn/Massage Party (Brooklyn). Its a good party...a bit slow going at first, but then it heats up.Very sexy.Check it out at www.massageparty.i...

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Water Sports/Golden Boys (Brooklyn)

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Thugs 4 Thugs Sex Party (Brooklyn)

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Jacks of Color (Harlem)

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JACKS OF COLOR (Harlem). A New York City Club For Men of Color & their Friends. HUGE parties 70-120 guys attend, all ages.This party is unfortunately on hiatus, but looking for a new spot. The host is a really cool guy, and hopefully will get this party started again.Check them out at www.jacksofcolor....

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Ed & Steve Group (Upper Manhattan)

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ED AND STEVE GROUP (Upper Manhattan). Private apartment. Interracial gay group that meet twice a month. $20.This very nice gay couple -- one black & one white -- host this gay parties on Sundays about twice a month. they get about 80+ guys -- mostly regulars, and about 10-15 new guys each time.Check it out at...http://groups.yahoo.com/group/EdAndSt...

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SKYBLU (Harlem)

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SKYBLU (Harlem) For older attractive masculine Black & Latino guys 35-50YO.Okay -- I've never been to this because I'm white and too young. But it sounds like a cool party for older dudes.Check out: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/SKYBLU-GROOVE/Or email stats and pics to: SKYBLU-GROOVE-subscribe@yahoogroups....

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The NYJockparty (Chelsea)

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The NYJockparty (Chelsea) Held in a beautiful loft apartment. Guys in the 20s-30s. Usually about 30-50+ guys attend, twice a month. $25.This is one of the MOST discriminating parties -- also one of the hottest, and filled with ATTITUDE. The host of the party guards the door and turns guys away if you are not hot enough for him (I don't think he could get into his own party). The website has pics of many of the guys that attend--and the pic are accurate: The NYJock Party has the hottest guys with the most attitudes.BUT...For me this is NOT my favorite...

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The Meatpackers (Brooklyn/Park Slope)

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The Meatpackers (Brooklyn/Park Slope) In cellar with cages and rooms. 1st & 2nd Sat of each month.I was hanging out with one of my goofy friends who lives in Brooklyn a few years ago, and he said he'd been going to this hot sex party in a basement nearby. The party was starting in a few hours -- so we went. I have to say the party was hot, but basement was a little scary, which in a way made it even hotter. The basement is filled with tiny closet-like rooms with windows so other dudes could watch, and wooden beds with mattresses, and everywhere...

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Butt Lickers (Chelsea)

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Butt Lickers (Chelsea). Rimming parties once a month.I've never been to this one either, but a dude asked me to post info on it. He said it was his favorite party, but he didn't really like the space. If you're into rimming. just contact them...nybutt@yahoo....

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New York Jacks (Chelsea)

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NEW YORK JACKS (Chelsea). Mutual masturbation party held at Paddles, doors open 7:30 to 9:00PM, party until 11PM; $20 NYJacks members with membership card$25 guestYou like JO and JO only-- well, dudes, here is heaven for you: Mutual masturbation between consenting adults is legal AND safe. I've never been -- JO to me means it's time to go home, but if you're into it, this is how they describe the place -- Guys of all ages, body types, sizes: tall, short, hairy, well endowed, young, older, all races, gay, married, bi-, etc. They don’t discriminate...

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The Bana Pool Party (Downtown)

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BANA POOL PARTY (Downtown) In a club: a huge space with different levels and rooms: hotubs, pools, shower rooms, saunas, steam rooms, sex rooms, dancefloor, bars.$40-50 general admission, $60-80 gets you a locker+, and $100 VIP pass.This party is cool -- and more social than most of the parties--you can dance, swim, hang out and have a good time. The crowd is filled with hot to average guys all looking to have a fun night. A lot of hot guys have written me about this party-- all positive stuff--and everyone seems to have a hot time, no matter...

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B.I.S.H.O.P. (Downtown/Midtown)

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BISHOP (Downtown/Midtown) Hotel room either in Midtown or Downtown. Usually 30-50 guys attend--mostly 30-40 YOs, $20.Okay -- I guess tonight it bitch night. I've written 3 blogs about the 3 worse parties--at least to me. As for BISHOP, I'll admit I’ve never been to this party -- and it's because they take anyone. They are always advertising on CL. I feel I can comment because dozens of dudes have written to me about this---almost all negative. The good news first: One guy reported that the party can be pretty hot, because it attracts a wide...

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All Male Party (Midtown West)

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All Male Party (Midtown West). In apartment. 25-50 guys.I haven't been to this one in years for two reasons...1. The party is way too expensive: they have this weird fee structure where you join up for a year or for gang bangs or whatever (check out their website), and they make you fill out all this ridiculous forms. DUDES--I want to get fucked, I don't want to join a fucking country club. Also, I can't understand why they need all those details about my life.2. I could have forgiven the fucking fee structure, and all the dumn forms, if the...

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The Men's Party & Bear Hunt (West Harlem)

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The Men's Party (West Harlem) Held in a big apartment in West Harlem. The party is a mix from some hot young guys to some fat guys. Has sling. Usually has about 30-50 guys attendings from 30-40 YOs. NOT a safe sex party. Have parties once a week. $25.When this party was on W96 -- I thought it was hot, and usually had a good time. Generally a few really hot dudes, and then a mix of average guys to a few trolls. The host was a nice guy and often had HIV tests and was very social. Then the party moved to Brooklyn, and I lost touch for a while....

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The Red Light Zone Party (Jersey City)

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RED LIGHT ZONE PARTY (Jersey City, NJ)I just heard about this party this week. Some dude, wrote me about it and sent me info. He said that the Red Light Zone Party is close to Journal Square — a huge PATH hub in Jersey — and has a very attractive host. The first time he went, he met a couple of hung daddies, but each subsequent time the crowd's been hung black guys. It's a good vibe, so if you're into Afr-Am guys, it's a good place to be. The place is clean and there's no attitude. Door open 11pm-3am, but you can stay to 5am. Snacks, drinks,...

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